My girlfriend left me for a looser?

My girlfriend (junior high school student, 15) cheated on me (Inf. Middle school student, 16) a few days ago with a guy (high school student) after I really did everything for her. I loved her very much and always treated her with respect and care. It was really painful for me but what happened just happened. I chatted a bit with her guy and told him to be careful that she jumps on other guys apparently quickly. But then I realized that it is an absolute failure. He is at school at the lowest level, understood only 30% of what I said in our conversation, made constant offensive allusions to my tail length in order to really get on thick pants. In addition, the Kerlein wore bright green Minecraft T-shirt in a size for 12 year olds… 😶

She said to me as a reason that she just felt like it… And now I see how nice the two cuddle each other every day.

WHY SHOULD YOU LEAVE ME FOR SUCH A WONDERFUL SOCIAL CASE?!

He must have something that was missing from you, for which of course you can't do anything and what you could not have known, since she obviously did not tell you.

Maybe they are happy with each other and understand each other on a completely different level… Maybe he is very different with her alone.

The cheating shouldn't have been that she isn't really sorry, it also shows that she didn't take it so seriously with you…

It doesn't matter whether it was a high school student or a high school student. She chose someone else and that's about it. Maybe the physical is more important to her than the cognitive… Or there's something completely different.

But you really deserve someone better if they treat your relationship like this and abuse your trust.

Gosh, you're around 15, you're still in puberty. To lower him because of his clothes and height is level. A failure looks different. I think that one is more of a type who always sees the causes of his failures with the others.

Better pull on your girlfriend, she cheated on you and is to blame.

Because you are sometimes too condescending to other people who obviously have qualities that you lack in your arrogance?

That would be one possibility.

The other is that you have completely misjudged their needs for yourself and yourself. Then you could be glad that it is over. Because it would have turned out worse for you in the long term. She would have taken advantage of Eich and then cheated.

Another possibility could be that at some point she no longer had a boclk just to be mothered by you.

And another possibility is the realization that you can't buy someone's love through care (s).

There are many options. Maybe you will find more. And maybe there are some that explain the whole thing to you.

Firstly, school performance has nothing to do with intelligence, regardless of whether it is secondary school or high school. Secondly, women are unfortunately just so that if they have enough of one, they jump on other types. Women are like ticks, when they get what they need they jump on others. Of course not every woman is affected, but unfortunately most of them. Had already had such a case, unfortunately it is just so. They probably like the feeling of changing partners, maybe even stimulating them to a certain extent.

Honey, men can do that at least as well, if not better. Please let your misogyny and inferiority complexes go.

Got me (Inf. Middle school student, 16) a couple of days ago with a guy (HAUPTSCHÜLER)

In school it is at the lowest level…

And? What does the fact that you were cheated have to do with the subject of school type (secondary school, junior high school, etc.)? Nothing at all. If it were different, then you wouldn't find any high school students who have been / are being cheated on (in their relationships). Completely irrespective of this, you would at least make an extremely hurtful, arrogant impression on me with such a statement in relation to some of your fellow human beings, as would your ex with the behavior you mentioned in part. Perhaps you should first try to pay more attention to your choice of words as well as your expression on the subject of "losers", in particular secondary school students. THAT would be a very good start.

And yes, as I wrote in this answer above… The fact that your new friend (?) Or someone in general goes to a secondary school or not at all does not mean that he can't give her what your ex or a woman in general wishes, needs or expects. Well, personally I see at least no connection between these two topics

I loved her very much and always treated her with respect and care.

Then ask yourself again, WHAT could have caused her to cheat on you, what she might have been missing ect. Or you talk about it to find out the reasons for all of these "incidents" from your side within yours at that time, in case you at least parted in good reason.

* within your relationship at the time

Blaming is probably sub-optimal here. In the event of a separation, both parties are sure to have a part in it, not just one

We only know the not announcement but the "announcement" of a frustrated abandoned person, which in my eyes is also infused with plenty of arrogance and self-love so that if one could hear other sides one would certainly revise the preconceived opinion.