Write to boys on Instagram?

me
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First of all have a nice evening everyone.

So where do we start. Not so long ago I wrote to a boy on Instagram and asked if we still know each other. (Little history, when I was 8/9 years old, I played Minecraft with my cousin and brother every day and then a boy with the same name was in our group for about 1 year).

He said he wasn't. Nevertheless, he came across as very personable and I would like to write a bit with him. Written yesterday, total failure. The conversation was very short and not as thought out as I had imagined. I would like to write to him again, but I don't know if he's interested.

We have an age difference of 3-4 years and he is in contact with my cousin. What do you all mean? Should I try, or should I not?

Sl

You have nothing to lose 😄

To

There's nothing wrong with not writing to him. What is the relationship between your cousin and he? If you are in the process of building a relationship I'd rather leave it, if not then just write to him.

me

So as far as I can tell, they're just friends. So he said he knows her, but nothing more specific. Since I don't have the best relationship with her now, I'm in a state of uncertainty: 3

But thank you very much for the answer.

To

I would just continue to write with him. If he is mature enough he would not reject you hammer hard, but he would just behave mature.

me

So his writing style seems to be mature. The uncertainty remains, but it's always worth a try.