My best friend never lets me do anything in Minecraft myself and judges me for every little mistake I make. Is she a real friend?
She is a real gamer ^^
You have to start Crossing Power.
Bring some gear and go out into the wild somewhere and say you got lost.
Dig a chamber there and live there for a long time. Get everything it takes to fight. Raise a large army of dogs and then when you are ready for a fight you should return home and destroy the bed.
You should build a cage with hard blocks where the spawn point is.
Attack your girlfriend and you win. After that, go to jail and blackmail your girlfriend. Only when she ceases to bond you do you release her.
Option 2: stop sorting! Strike! Then she has to sort it herself and she will know how boring it is.