Do I have to delete my Discord friends 🥺?

an
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Hi, I played Minecraft yesterday and made friends with some. My father forbids me to do that and now I'm on their Discord server and don't dare tell my father because I think he says I should block and delete them. But they were very nice to me, but when my father finds out something like that, it gets stupid for me. Can someone help me? (The Discord people are a little older than me)

ha

Why should you tell him, just leave it.

And if your dad forbids you to do it, then I wouldn't do it or I wouldn't let myself be caught, otherwise he'll likely get pissed off or delete Dicord.

Sc

But they were very nice to me, but when my father finds out something like that, it gets stupid for me.

That's why. She is afraid of getting caught.

But of course - you just have to be reasonably smart.

Ja

How old were they? 14, 15?

Ja

Right

Ba

I wouldn't tell. You just have to be careful that he doesn't find out because otherwise he might delete Discord completely and it's pretty unfair to forbid you to do that. That's my recommendation but in the end it's your decision

Be

So first of all welcome to the club - I'm not allowed to have Discord either. ^^

In fact, I wouldn't tell him and be careful not to get caught. If you are in a talk often, then I would be careful if your father is 2 rooms next door and mute you / leave the talk when he is in a room next door.

Of course it's always a bit risky, but I've actually been doing it for 4 years.

an

@ MrCube866 you are 4 years older than me.

an

But I don't want to hide it from my father either and with my last friend I met my father said I shouldn't do that You never know how old you are and whether they hack my laptop to find out my location…

an

And my sister is also allowed to, but I'm not.

an

And another problem is my father is often at my laptop that means when I get a message it is displayed.

Ja

Does it answer your cell phone too?

Ja

So, I'm not a hacker, but I think you'd need a little more information than maybe the discord name

an

Yes

an

Nobody knows my reallife name, not even my best friend

Po

You can't just hack others through Discord. To do this, you have to download and execute files that are sent to you.

With Teamspeak, theoretically every server owner can find out the location, but not with Discord.

Say that you talk to reallife friends when he asks or catches you. Or say it as it is in the 2nd paragraph of this answer.

an

@CorruptdSystem but I'm not supposed to lie in the family but I don't want to lie to my father or lose my new friends

an

But my father is a computer specialist and he deals with hackers every day so I think my father knows very well D

Po

Well, that's the only thing you could say, and it's not that it's the most blatant lie.

Otherwise, just don't get caught.

Sc

I was also an IT specialist in system integration and now a software developer.

Your father should know that it goes through a central server and that the users are never directly connected to each other, but rather communicate via the server.

To find someone you have to first hack Discord yourself.

Sc

You can also not let Discord start automatically or only use it in the browser.

Be

Honestly, sometimes you have to compromise ^^

an

Okay thanks ☺️

Be

No problem. 😉