I'm 14 years old and I know a girl like that, she is 16 and lives about 300km away from me. I got to know her about 3 years ago through a friend and I really like her.
We wanted to meet so many times, especially earlier, but I was too small and didn't want to be 300km away from home when I was 11 … So somehow we haven't met yet…
At some point I broke the contact out of my own stupidity because a friend at the time told me that she was exploiting everyone and was fake, etc.
Then of course I believed my "friend" and blocked it first: /
After less than a year I tried to remember her Insta name again. At some point he came back again. I wrote to her first and said… Who I'm and then she recognized me again.
We have been writing every day for half a year and often play games like Minecraft together. At some point she wrote to my best friend and they wrote a little bit, saying to him that she loves me a little and that something could become between us if we met.
She has few friends and is unfortunately bullied a bit at school (but she doesn't want to admit it). She is alone all day and doesn't really know what to do.
I don't want to ask her that right now, since we've had an abnormal amount of arguments over the past few days, but everything has been resolved.
She doesn't have a cell phone or anything like that because her family doesn't have that much money.
And please save yourself the comments now that she is probably a catfish etc.
I actually love her… What does she mean? I love her character and her humor, her own style and she is also very pretty
I could really imagine something with her if you ever met.
The thing is that she was already with 6 or 7 people, "so online…
She also has few friends and practically no one with whom she can do something all day long. Sure, she definitely has two really good friends but they certainly don't want to do something with the same person every day… Meanwhile she means that I mean her have become super important and that she gets up because of me etc. Somehow that I give her motivation etc… And that she is really serious with me. In addition, she said I think that happened, and that she can no longer undo it… It's clear ^^
To me it looks a little bit like she was just trying to find at least friends online that she had some fun with. And with all the "relationships" I just hope that she wasn't serious about the others…
How would you see it?
Since you don't want to hear the word "catfish", I tell you differently: she never wants to meet with you. Even if she doesn't just do it for amusement, it will only ever be online. Better find a friend in your area who you can see and who you can be sure is real.
That was one of the reasons why I just blocked her back then…
But now I don't think so anymore for various reasons.
I just see what's going to happen in the next few weeks and I'll talk to you about it later…
If you're sure, call her. Skype is free and you can set it up on your computer. Then you can hear them. All she needs is a headset. You can get that for five euro.
Hey We have already discussed this. We call the days on the landline phone… If she calls her I call her house phone on the cell phone and then we talk… Her parents do not want to buy her a headset. She has very good headphones for almost 150 euro and see her parents it is not her to buy a new one…
I've also tried another way to see if she's lying to me where she lives. So I just created an email address for a shared Insta account and it was then on gmail… So I could see your location. It was exactly where you said it was in the same city. It's really mean, but afterwards I knew that she hadn't lied to me.
Didn't you say her family had no money? Then she has headphones that are so expensive? O.O (Sorry, not bad mean, but that just contradicts me! I don't have much money myself and would never spend so much on headphones, but I still have a cell phone.)
I don't really have anything to say about it. You seem pretty fit about computers. That significantly exceeds my knowledge. If you have any other questions about relationships, I will be happy to answer them.
