How do you play with friends?

I play minecraft java and want to know how i play with friends without realms thanks.

Make your own server.

Aha

that and how?

Google helps. There are enough tutorials.

Yes you have to pay i want a free art

For free, it gets cumbersome, let it run on your PC, forward port and so on.

Go to aternos and make your own server for free or buy one

I already have mods but don't go to aternos

But you have to do it forge

https://drive.google.com/...sp=sharing
here is a video of me on google drive

Do I have

OK and then? Are the mods on it that I made?

This is a tutorial:

You can't make your own mods on it only those that are already there

So is there a furniture mod?