I have a quick question, and I noticed that my friend behaves very differently next to certain people than usual (crazy or wild). That happened, for example, in the afternoon working group, when he behaved differently in front of a certain girl and allowed himself to joke about me in order to be well received by the girl (I think). Well, he's not too loyal either, he likes to blaspheme people and indirectly portrays them badly in front of others.
Now that one friend and I have started playing a game together (Minecraft). We have known each other for 4 years (also go to the same class etc.) He was always friendly and attentive to the game. Today another friend came into our game world. And now my boyfriend is behaving completely differently and more "turned up". I think that's just stupid. For example, he passively makes fun of the other person about statements made by me, wants to make fun of my little brother (10) with some game commands (e.g. That my brother should lose all his things), and next to my in-game house he builds a strange path from he knows himself that I think that's stupid. (When he said he was building a way for me, he laughed in between). When we finally had to make it out, I talked to him when the other one left too. I wanted to talk to him about how I think it's stupid how he always pretends to be. But he justifies this with the fact that he was happy that the other took part. When I spoke to him, he laughed a lot and watched videos. I told him that if he kept acting like this, I would not play anymore. What should I do now? Am I just exaggerating? How should I act. It's not about the fact that he messes up in a game, it's about the principle that he always pretends to be good to others and is not ashamed to joke about his best friends. (PS: We're all 14 except my little brother.)
Sorry, that has become longer than I thought.
Seems to me like he's an insecure guy with little self-esteem who has to prove to others what he's capable of.
I would say straight to the face. And that with every text that comes to me stupid.
the last one who did not want to stop talking stupid etc. Then just couldn't talk anymore. At some point it's over.
Thanks for your answer! What could I say to him the next time he pretends to be like that?
First of all, thank you for the answer. Maybe you could tell me a spell that I could use against him if he turns around like that again?
I thank you for your long answer.
Thank you!
No saying. I would ignore that
I then say something like: Hey, how are you on it? Making fun of me just because… Now is there, you can't be serious. You are welcome to do one on Digger, but don't use me as your comedy content.
Thank you!
Thank you
No, you are not exaggerating. A lot of people do that (especially during puberty) to look cooler, or what do I know. Some of my friends at the time pretended to be completely cool, but they were really screwed up and with me just like they really were.
