How do I get over the grief?

Je
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First of all: yes I know it's a game and not real life!

Now the following 5 years ago (I'm currently 13) in Minecraft built a world with all my ideas, wish you a lot of fun and creativity! I have been building for 1 year and got to know the game. First houses made of iron gold diamonds blöxken built for animals stables and apartments built for the spiders etc swimming pools swimming parks but 4 years ago the world was simply gone (I do not know why it is gone!) Now I have been mourning the world for 4 years and it just pulls me down, as was said, I can't build all my ideas etc. Because I immediately lose motivation because I think: it won't be like before!) What can I do now? As I said, new building is not possible, I get aggression, etc. I can't get to the world anymore. Lg

Da

That's called growing up. The grief never goes away

Je

Something you don't have

Ha

Enjoy the time in your life when only mine power makes you sad.

(may sound harsh but it's true)

Je

Now your answer is better!

Je

Aha.

Da

So your comment still doesn't add up to a sin

Je

This is called growing up: it's a cheeky answer!

Da

True, you probably meant "something i'm not"

Ha

Watch YouTube videos of other people with nicer builds.

Je

It's so funny when people try to annoy me by all means and don't make it and then have to look for new arguments

Ha

I'll help you.

Je

Kappa

Ha

Learn German.

Je

Learn to think and understand.

Ha

Again makes no sense.

Je

But it makes sense. If you turn on your brain and learn to understand, you would know that kappa does NOT mean.

Ha

No, "kappa" is not a word.

Je

The emote or the word "kappa" is used on the Internet to identify a sarcastic or ambiguous sentence.

Source: https://tipps.computerbild.de/internet/social-media/kappa-bedeutung-und-herkunft-einfach-erklaert-577401.html

I just put it all down for you.

Ha

You just confirmed me. "Internet words" are not real words. Just as often the "youth word of the year" is not a real word.

Je

Then everything you are writing here is not a real word.

Ha

Oh man.

Da

So here I'm on your side kappa is a word… But using computer image as its source is so 2000 and out… Ever heard of urban dictionary? https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Kappa

Je

Doesn't matter who will never get it he just tries to "get" and always tries to be "right". I ignore him now, after all, life is not infinite ^^ no I don't but I don't care what source it is, the main thing is an XD

Ha

It is not something to discuss. Just write "kappa" instead of "not" in your next German work and then discuss with your teacher why this is wrong.

Je

I don't need it because we at the school were taught the word. Sry

Ha

Certainly

Je

Sure, of course. Mr. Wannabe diagnosis make help advisor know-it-all with the magic ball

Da

Lol the teachers don't know all the words! So if someone answers on the INTERNET with netspeak dan one should not answer with learn german

Ha

I don't make diagnoses, I just give advice.

Je

Turn on your brain turn on your brain please do it!

Ha

Another comment without any added value.

Be

Only that I understand that correctly… You built a Minecraft world when you were 8 years old. So a world in a game… And under some circumstances you have lost the game savegame… Your self-made Minecraft world is thus lost… And would just have to be rebuilt?

Yes… This is really hard. I also know this feeling.

Back then, I also invested countless hours in a game and then one day… The game console was broken. My score was also beyond salvation…

… I was also super sad and disappointed because there was so much work and time in it and everything just dissolved into "nothing".

… I tried to play the game again from the beginning, again… But the motivation and joy also evaporated with me, just as quickly as with you. - As you write yourself, it's just not the same anymore. And you really have the feeling that this lost world can no longer be reconstructed.

Back then I just completely finished with this game. I put the game aside and have never touched it since. I'm just trying to remember that the season back then was really great…

New games, even other hobbies, have now taken the place of my favorite game, the score of which I lost at the time.

I would therefore also recommend that you keep your eyes open for something new. And just give your lost Minecraft world a nice place in your memory.

I know it's sometimes really hard when you lose something you love. And unfortunately there will still be many moments in life when you have to say "goodbye" to something… And you are aware that this something will never come back.

Gr

So I would have a good advice ready. I totally understand the motivation. But maybe you would have more motivation if you rebuild your world with a friend and or you create it together. So you can create something completely new. You can present yourself what you have or how you present it and he is next to you. Possibly. Also help YT videos to show others what you might want later and more and maybe even interest some of what you might like. There's even more motivation.

Je

I've already tried it. Didn't help but thank you

Je

I'll have to do that so I have no choice or I'm building a new world in a different game mode but thanks for your help.