Minecraft ps4 no multiplayer?

I have a problem that I can't join my friends. I'm connected to my Microsoft account and have a stable internet connection.

if I want to join it says forever:

Connection to the multiplayer is established and then no connection could be established.

No internet connection or not connected to Microsoft account.

Seriously, I wrote that I have both?!

Dan I can't help you either. Your problem!

Sorry for the expressive way

The problem is that in the Microsoft account the settings join multiplayer game and create multiplayer game are deactivated, you have to activate them then it should work

Sorry for the expression

I have everything on my Microsoft account, so that was not the solution

Nevertheless many thanks

Do you have him as a Microsoft friend

No, but that can't be the problem because we both play on Ps4 and he invited me… He can play with another friend and they don't have each other as Microsoft friends either

Then it will be the mistake that it just doesn't work that I know you can't do anything but just rejoin again and again sometimes it works but that is relatively rare