Find games where you have to farm lots of items for quests and so on in a fun way.
Similar to skyblock on hypixel in minecraft or dauntless etc.
Try Kingdome come deliverance if you're interested in the Middle Ages. You can grind really hard in there. For me it was sometimes the case that I was hardly accessible during this and the time goes by damn fast. So if you like medieval and quests then this is just the thing. Otherwise there's Assassin's Creed, which is pretty good at first, but eventually gets boring because the quests are always the same. Of course there's also Ark (similar to Minecraft only with dinosaurs). Or Read Dead Redemption 2.